The Science of Gun Milan: Beyond the Score
It's Not Just About 36 Points
When it comes to arranged marriages in India, the first thing families ask for is the "Gun Milan" score. While a score above 18 is considered acceptable and above 28 is excellent, the score is just the tip of the iceberg. The process involves checking 8 different categories of compatibility, known as 'Ashta Koota'.
The 8 Kootas (Categories)
- Varna (1 Point): Spiritual compatibility and ego.
- Vashya (2 Points): Mutual attraction and control.
- Tara (3 Points): Destiny and health compatibility.
- Yoni (4 Points): Biological and intimacy compatibility.
- Maitri (5 Points): Friendship and psychological harmony. This is crucial.
- Gana (6 Points): Temperament (Deva, Manushya, Rakshasa).
- Bhakoot (7 Points): Emotional growth and family welfare.
- Nadi (8 Points): Health, genetics, and progeny.
The Red Flags: Doshas
Even with a high score, the presence of Mangal Dosha (Mars affliction) or Nadi Dosha can cause serious issues. Mars represents aggression and energy; if one partner has high Mars energy and the other doesn't, it can lead to conflict. Nadi Dosha relates to Ayurvedic constitutions (Vata, Pitta, Kapha) and genetics—marriage within the same Nadi is traditionally avoided to ensure healthy offspring.
So, never rely solely on online calculators. Always look at the detailed breakdown!